1.Calling the opposite sex dear, dearie, dearest,
sweet, sweetie, and all those "harmless" pet
names.
2. Calling and allowing the opposite sex to call
you sexy, curvy, angel, idol, etc.
3. Pouting your mouth and posting the picture on
the social media (You give more focus on the
lips).
4. Turning your bum to the camera and posting
the picture on the social media. Same for ladies
who focus more on the chest region.
5. Hugging, touching and embracing every Tom,
Dick and Harry.
6. Allowing the opposite sex give you sexy
compliments and secretly or publicly enjoying the
compliment e.g. "I like your figure", "You've got
kissable lips," "Your moustache makes you look
so sexy," "Your height is tripping. I like guys who
are muscular and six feet tall."
7. You allowed your EX back into your life.
8. You allow the opposite friend to visit you
anyday, anytime.
9. You visit the opposite sex friend anyday, any
time.
10. You flirt "harmlessly"with the opposite sex.
11. As a married man/woman, you chat with the
opposite sex far into the night.
12. You give "harmless" pecks and kisses.
13. Your dates are always done in lonely places.
14. You counsel and pray with the opposite sex
in a lonely or dark room.
15. You end up having emotional and physical
sexual affair and lose yourself respect for life!
These things look harmless but have very serious
implications. Jesus says "Flee all appearances
of evil"! No, you don't wait until that guy/lady ask
for sex before you run! You run at the beginning!
Say NO to things that are not proper, say NO to
words that turn you on, say NO to people that
makes you feel "hot!" Avoid situations and
environments that encourage sin.
Keep your chastity. Keep your testimony. God
bless you. Cheers!