Introduction
Mechanism of Understanding is the mental, physical and psychological process of knowledgeability of the other person.
In other words, it is an aspect of interpersonal relationship that makes for the understanding of the other person’s point of view. It literally means how to understand/have knowledge of the other person, mentality, physically and psychologically. This aids how well we relate with people and I can assure you that if we all do this well, the world would have been better than it is at the moment.
Mechanism of Understanding helps to see in another person’s end, even when it seems most unreasonable to do so.
For instance, if after you have a light disagreement with your partner, you try calling, but he/she isn't picking up. The WhatsApp and BBM messages you sent shows he/she read them, what will be going on in your mind at that moment is that he/she intentionally ignores your calls and messages. You think you will not assume such?Regardless of how well you think you all can handle such situation, it is obvious most of us will get annoyed and say some things out of anger. What causes such anger? That anger was self influenced. It was actually as a result of lack of understanding of what is going on with the other person and the assumption of wrongs on behalf of that person.
Most of us, if not all of us, would have thought: “oh, because of this little quarrel, he/she ignores my calls; he/she even sees my messages, read and didn't reply. I guess he/she has been seeing another person, I guess he/she planned this to happen in order to do what’s on his/her mind.” But only few of us would have reasoned in the other person's favor in that situation.