"The truth, the bitter and known truth; I want to say and communicate. Let's hear the conclusion of the whole matter, "transparency isn't the mirror, the mirror is the eye to the heart".
I've been wondering and I'm tired of wondering and picturing the actual result of been weird and harsh on a fellow flesh. This is paramount in a relationship life.
A brief word and tears could not utter how hurt it hurts when a relationship got broken up with just, "I don't think I can continue, it could be better if we break up" from either of the partners.
Now, considering another brutal manner of passing a silent but killing information in relationship, it is double-dating or cheating.
Let me take "cheating" in the real sense, let's call a spade a spade.
Often, in relationship, man is bound to suffer, I mean human beings are bound to cry for love even when the love is what they feel to make them cry. Considering the fact that male and female cheat, "it's improper to cheat in relationship."
I once came across an article that "condemn a married wife from cheating even when her husband indulges in it.
Why?
Because it said so save her marriage from being ruined".
Taking a look at the picture of been ease while the partner cheats tells of a formal internal approach from the wife while she'll approach him informally like nothing is bothering or happening to her.
I often wonder why either of the two cheat in relationship.
Its true, I once said "one cannot notice blemish in the woman or man before he/she gets addicted to her."
Taking another practical look at that, I'll say it's true with reasons while some might say it's wrong with reasons but from my own observation, "we cannot notice the blemish, the fault and the negativity before we get addicted to the partner in a relationship".
Now, going back to the concept of the title.
I was a victim of a broken relationship, it hurts a lot. Yea, it does hurts but the main thing is the objective of the love; tho' gone, but the action of the loser determines how weird he/she will be.
That's why I'll say again that "you cannot notice the blemish or fault in your partner before you get addicted to such..."
You may think he/she hates money, not hate money in the real sense but hates asking money or seeking material things from the partner whereas he/she pretends to be okay with the _"low life the guy lives"._
Different thing will definitely occur, it will seem like a brutal death when you caught your partner cheating with no form of remorse and then your mind is made up to crush him/her.
Let's take a female as the cheater while the male is the truthful, loving, caring but broke dude.
Perhaps, the guy's friend hook up with his girl and no form of remorse was from her eye, now as the guy: The heart broken guy, you thought the right thing to do is to revenge?
At this junction, I'll say "men and women are often cruel cos' they are pushed to the wall and had no other option but to _'defend a pride and dignity from friends'_ and thus' making up the mind to revenge no matter what will go in the course of revenging".
Men and women are weird and are often prepared to battle the invisible, harsh words to antagonize a harsh action whereas "soft answer calm wrath" but in the negativity, the partner flare back and it does become a distant war room between the guy and the lady.
I often say that "male are often weird unknown that females made them a lion in the garden of dove while I still subject myself to the say that female are weird because they are willing to protect relationship".
I'd say that both words of mine are correct but the fact still stand that "love gives room for love and hatred, smiles and tears, fight and care, wound and heal and the brutal one break the heart and smile".
Both gender are brutal.
Some beings are weird and willing to do anything to revenge, that will be for another write up.
"The truth, the bitter and known truth; I've said and communicated. Let's hear the conclusion of the whole matter, "transparency isn't the mirror, the mirror is the eye to the heart".
"Relationships makes both gender weird, it's called for and it's uncalled for.
Who want to be reproached?"
Till next time, I'll discuss on "who want to be reproached?"
Stay tuned.
Philip Peace
"words from the innocent mind"